Under the water

My First Deepwater Test

Change is difficult. We fear moving forward. We fear remaining stuck where we are. It’s fear all the way around.  Working with fear remains a vital part of being alive.  As a boy, I was a very good swimmer.  When I was nine or ten, I took my first deepwater test.  It occurred Read more…

A mountain trail

A Hero’s Journey

How do we create a life involving relationships with those we love and cherish, friends and intimate partners who recognize and appreciate who we are?  How do we find stimulating work that expresses our unique talents and abilities, giving our lives purpose and meaning?  How do we create a sense of being Read more…

Jacob wrestles with an angel

Wrestling with Ourselves

Do you remember the Biblical story of Jacob wrestling with the angel?  Jacob manipulated his brother Esau to sell his inheritance for a bowl of stew and then stole his father’s blessing.  Twenty years later, on the eve of being reunited with Esau, a strange being, an angel or perhaps Read more…

Light coming in through a hole in the wall at the sea

Psychological & Spiritual Truth

The Russian novelist Leo Tolstoy considered the Biblical story of Joseph the most beautiful ever written. He had a point. Do you remember it? Joseph was Jacob’s favorite son. Papa made a glorious coat for the boy and the brothers seethed with envy. They considered killing their hated brother but Read more…

Image of a sign that says wrong way.

Making Friends with Our Mistakes

Thomas Edison worked feverishly to discover a suitable element for the filament of his light bulb prototype.  He and his assistants tried many, perhaps hundreds or even thousands of different elements.  Each attempt ended in failure.  Nothing worked.  Feeling great despair, some in his lab wanted to give up.  But Read more…

A bowing bird

Asking for Wonder

Shortly before his death, Abraham Joshua Heschel, the great 20th century Jewish theologian, confided to a friend that he never wanted fame or fortune.  He asked for wonder.  And he felt God had given him wonder.  What an extraordinary thing to wish for.  A life full of wonder.  Here are some Read more…

An arrow pointed one way.

Life Happens as We Make Other Plans

Consider the life of Moses.  He was born into a Hebrew family enslaved in Egypt.  His parents were happy to have a son.  But Pharaoh condemned every Hebrew male child to death, so the parents built an ark and sent the infant down the Nile. Pharaoh’s daughter adopted the Hebrew Read more…

A heart lit by sparklers

What’s Love Got to Do With it?

The great twentieth century poet Rainer Maria Rilke wrote that for one human being to love another was the most difficult thing, everything else in life was preparation.  What is it that makes loving another so difficult?  When we meet someone who sparks our love interest, we put our best Read more…

Cobblestones lit by light

Encountering the Sacred

We have many words to refer to the Sacred:  God, Yahweh, Allah, the Lord, the Creator, the Divine, Consciousness, the Absolute, the Self, the Tao.  The words are different, but they come from the same place, and go to the same place: everywhere and nowhere.  At the Burning Bush, Moses worried Read more…

Fire engine red car

Learning to Drive

I grew up in New York City and did not learn to drive until I was twenty-seven.  Growing up, it was easy to get around the city using mass transit.  If our family needed a car, my parents rented or borrowed one. In my late twenties, I lived in the Read more…